It’s Not What You Think

Even if he has never cheated. Even if you have never suspected him. Even if your relationship is great.

There are things we think we know about men, sex, desire and fidelity. And then there’s what really happens.

In “It’s Not What You Think,” based on Sigal Geshury’s book, we open the door to a subject usually discussed only in whispers — and ask what really lies behind infidelity. Not to make you suspicious. Not to make you afraid. And definitely not to make you check his phone. But to understand.

Why would a man who genuinely loves his partner cheat? Does infidelity always mean something is missing at home? What is the difference between love, desire and intimacy? Why should we remain curious about each other even in a happy relationship? And when trust has been broken, is it truly possible to love, touch and trust again?

This is a talk about infidelity — but it’s really a talk about love.

About the places where women and men lose sight of each other. About desire inside long-term relationships. About the secrets we sometimes keep even from ourselves. And about the possibility of seeing the man beside you — and yourself — differently.

An intimate, sexy, funny, revealing and thought-provoking evening for women. One small warning: after this talk, you may look at him a little differently. And perhaps at yourself, too.